The view we hold of life is always influenced by the place where we stand...both literally and metaphorically. For example, literally speaking, if we stand at the foot of a mountain its peak looks very small in the distance. If we stand on the top of a mountain, we have a beautiful, panoramic view of what lies below.
In life the same principle holds true in our personal interactions in a very spiritual way. The LOWER the vibration of our reaction to an event that has occurred, the less we can see of that beautiful "mountaintop". The HIGHER the vibration of our response to that event, the more we can take in the "beautiful horizon" around us.
And what would constitute a "lower" vibration view in this scenario? Seeing what is happening from the lens of limiting beliefs, painful or hurt feelings, unresolved issues. In other words, giving something that has happened the worst possible interpretation we can think of at that moment. A "higher" vibration view would be making a conscious decision to interpret what is happening in the most accepting, most compassionate way we can imagine.and, hopefully, with some lightness and humor as that always helps us and everyone else involved gain perspective.
Here's an example. We are speaking with someone and while we are still forming our words, the person begins to turn and start moving away from us. The view at the foot of this mountain: "Wait a minute. I am still speaking. Why are you walking away?"
The view from the top of this mountain would look quite different. Here when we are speaking and a person begins to fidget or move about we might say, "I see you are dancing. What 'music' are you hearing?"
There's a huge difference in these two reactions. The first one interprets the behavior as uncaring. The second one interprets it in the highest possible light...something is going on inside the person that wants his body to move.
And, if we think about the situation calmly for a moment, we can see that the second interpretation has to be true. Something IS going on. Something the person hasn't understood or resolved. And, wonderfully, we are giving that person compassion and understanding.
How did we get to this beautiful state of generous caring? By making the conscious choice to go to the highest peak on the mountain...in other words, to go to the best possible interpretation of what has just transpired. We can cultivate this habit in ourselves...practice it....experiment with it....see how this choice changes our feelings and what happens next.
Here's a thought. We may not have the physical stamina and endurance to make the demanding climb to Mount Everest or Mount Kilimanjaro. But we can be adventurous mountain climbers in our hearts by taking on the challenge of reaching for that panoramic view of what everyone's interactions represent. And the road sign in to that destination: This way to "the best possible interpretation".
There is always more going on than we can see from our own, personal view, but THE VIEW FROM UP HERE holds the potential to give us that very important information.
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